Many older adults continue to enjoy sexual and intimate relationships. While some changes are normal with aging, sexual interest and activity can still be an important part of life, connection, and well-being. Preferences, frequency, and comfort may change. Understanding these changes can help you have a healthy and satisfying sex life at any age.
Key Facts
Many older adults remain sexually active. In one large study:
- Among people ages 57 to 65, 62% of women and 85% of men had sex in the past year.
- Among people ages 75 to 85, 17% of women and 39% of men were sexually active. About half of those with a partner were still sexually active.
With age, sexual problems may become more common:
- Among sexually active women ages 75 to 85, about half reported low interest in sex, 44% had vaginal dryness, and 12% had pain during sex.
- By age 70, 67% of men reported trouble getting or keeping an erection.
Sexual Concerns for Older Adults
Sexual concerns may include less interest, problems with performance, or discomfort during sex. Common issues include:
- Changes in sexual performance
- Pain or discomfort during sex
- Loss of interest or desire
- Less excitement, pleasure, or orgasm
- Less frequent sexual activity
- Side effects from medications
- Health problems that make sex difficult, such as arthritis, diabetes, or heart disease
Last Updated May 2026